It is not demeaning to a man when he will openly ask for help from anyone. In fact, I am more appreciative of people who will publicly announce that he does not know instead of pretending to be knowledgeable, only to end wrong and commit some damages that are unrepairable.
I would rather err on the negative side than commit a blunder which I will regret all throughout my life. It is harder to undo the things which have been done than to perform an act that has to be done.
Nobody will understand the wife with a forgiving heart. And though my patient hated the day each time her husband will come home coming his concubine, but for her children’s sake, she accepted her husband who didn’t realize the pain his family suffered at the moment. The numb husband even gladly shared every moment he spent with the other woman to his family and even expressed his excitement that the latter bore him a son. It so happened that his children with his wife are all girls and to have a son is something he is looking forward to. And the forgiving wife understand this and is just praying that soon, her husband will see the light and finally come back home even with the child. Such a lucky husband indeed.