We don’t have to repeat the mistake that happen to us. A young handsome student once asked for my advice. He is already committed to his girlfriend but was sleeping with a friend who already bear his child. Being a son out wedlock himself, he doesn’t want to back out but it so happened that he love his girlfriend more than his other friend. True love will understand but the innocent child will never understand. And with a heavy heart, my student marry the friend for the sake of their child.