We can’t choose our relative but we can with friends and lifetime partner. There are times when we have to choose between our family and our loved one and we prefer the latter only to be disowned by our own family. And in moments like this, sometimes it will take a lifetime for us to realize that we are wrong and occassionally, we are right. But it’s not all about who is wrong and who is right. Rather, it’s more of how we stand firm with our decision and convince our family why we have to choose our loved one and not them this time. Our family will always understand though it will take a long while for some.